Reflecting vs. Ruminating

Reflecting vs. Ruminating

When we see opportunity in the workplace, we all know we should be making it a priority to give real time feedback. This should be done in a helpful and positive way, and in a private setting. And we typically close out the discussion by encouraging the other person...
What is Time Perception?

What is Time Perception?

The other day, my daughter made an astute observation about what she referred to as “time perception”. You know how time seems to slow when you’re doing something you don’t love, but the weekends just seem to fly by?  When I probed on the phrase, she...
Is Hate Bonding a thing?

Is Hate Bonding a thing?

This week, I heard someone talking gleefully about “hate bonding”. It’s apparently accelerating social media engagement around hot, trending topics. Hate bonding happens when people very quickly form tight bonds over shared dislikes. Of course,...
Chinese for “Wisdom”

Chinese for “Wisdom”

We’ve been discussing knowledge – intellect – wisdom. Here’s something interesting: the Chinese word for wisdom is 智慧 (Zhìhuì). Let’s have a look at what those individual characters mean: 智 (Zhì) =knowledge and 慧 (huì) = intelligence....
A three month miracle.

A three month miracle.

Yes, the Spare Room is a book. More importantly, it’s also a protected space in our home, where we’re currently caring for our 17th young person. In just three months’ time, Wayne has experienced an extraordinary transformation. This little guy has...